Being too eager in dating
A guy who feels lost and directionless will be too wrapped up in himself to be a loving, caring partner who can be in tune to your needs.This guy will just bring you down with his negativity and will resent you if you happen to have your act together.
If you’re already dating him: Tell him something like “Look, I’m not into doing the casual, undefined thing.
If you’re already dating him: Don’t try to pump him up or find a job for him or offer insights into what you think he should do with his life.
This will only make him feel like a pathetic loser.
If you’re already dating him: I wouldn’t get my hopes up too high with this dude, he’s even more scattered and unfocused than the job-less guy and it will take him significantly longer to get his act together.
If you find yourself involved with a starving artist type, I say keep it casual, have you fun, and don’t take it too seriously.