Dating and personality disorders
It is sad because some of them are actually good people at heart and it is easy to lose sight of that.
Dating someone with BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) is not an impossible task despite what you often read about on the internet.
And by boundaries I mean For women, there’s just nothing more attractive than a man that knows what he wants, isn’t afraid to call you out, challenges you instead of chasing you, values himself and yet still has that genuine love for you. For men, while we do tend to focus more on beauty, the killer combo is a woman that’s beautiful has brains.
And most men will agree with the fact that women appear to be more and more beautiful the more confident they are.
There is usually an idealization phase where you are given the impression that you are the love of this person’s life and put on a pedestal which can be very confusing for you when you end up being painted black later on in the relationship.
Casual dating with any sort of personal boundaries can be very difficult for a borderline.
Don’t be so quick to jump into nothing will ever help you succeed in dating someone with Borderline Personality Disorder.
If he/she senses that you are going to break off the relationship, they may go into survival mode and start searching for other partners in advance or cheat.There’s just nothing like a classy woman walking down the sidewalk like she’s the boss.That aura of confidence just sucks guys right in, makes her so much more beautiful.They may see you as their favorite person one minute and an evil person the next minute; this is informally called “splitting”.The person may also become clingy or move very, very fast as forming bonds very quickly and having poor boundaries is also a part of BPD.