Dating hot and cold men
The key is not sleeping with him until he falls in love with you.
We talk about that in some other articles on this site, so look those up if you get a spare moment.
Yes, of course you’re going to like the guy because he will do everything he can to entertain you, impress you and make good conversation. If your desire is to “change” a player and make him fall in love with you and to turn him into a good boy, then I just can’t give you any specific encouragement. And you don’t care, when you sense that he doesn’t care. Do NOT under any circumstances sleep with him, even if it feels right.
I really think the whole concept of “changing a man” is flawed. Challenge him, by ignoring his “cold phase.” Essentially, you play cold with him when he plays cold with you. Because that’s the only leverage he will have on you when it happens.
That’s when they will try to be real and try to meet a high-value woman they really can fall in love with.
So the best thing to do is to determine if your hot and cold guy just wants sex (meaning he’s not ready to change) or if he’s really at that point where he could open his heart.
So now your desire to talk to him has increased dramatically, even to the point of obsession, IF you don’t understand what he’s doing and why.
And…then the cycle repeats itself until, he figures, you sleep with him. Kind of just a really simple technique that works on some women.
Same advice I give to any woman who’s looking for a serious relationship.
Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…
Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…
I don’t think all players are bad men or narcissistic.
They are just men who are too afraid of commitment and who are moving at a very slow pace when it comes to real intimacy. You can’t cure them of their baggage, you can’t make them love you.
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In the meantime just remember, Hot = Hot and Cold = Cold. There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…