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Four days later, he checks in again to see if he can reach her. He returns home, and hears through the grapevine that she thought he was a good guy but was a little too “needy.”This drives me fucking nuts.Ladies who are reading this — I am pleading with you to find some consistency.
Some even said that I shouldn’t have had any more contact until Saturday at all. Has it really come to this, that it’s not just “don’t be a stalker” but that any sign of showing you want to talk to the person is a sign of weakness and grounds for elimination?We had our first conversation on this past Tuesday night and it went well.We have a date scheduled for Saturday evening to get drinks.You’ve told me in no uncertain terms that you’re sick of men who are players. Then why the HELL can’t a good guy make an effort towards you without being labeled needy? A guy who does what he says and says what he means? Listen, I’m not saying that this woman has to like Markus.For all I know, he left a really creepy message that lasted for four minutes before cutting off due to a full mailbox. Or the good guy who makes a normal and sustained effort without overdoing it? A stalker guy is one who initiates contact because they are interested BUT not considerate of the receivers time nor do they read the cues that they are forcing themselves into someone elses boundaries.